“Being Real Costs You Nothing”

In a world that often pulls us in different directions, there's something profoundly liberating about being authentic. It's about embracing your true self, making decisions aligned with your values, and walking a path that makes sense to you. As we navigate the complexities of life, it's crucial to understand that being real costs us nothing, yet it gifts us everything. It is the age of Aquarius - all hidden things will be brought to light whether you like it or not. This can be dangerous for some of us who have to hide parts of ourselves to minimize harm. We will address that more fully in later writings, for now, know that I see you and I love you. Know that you deserve to be accepted as your full glorious self.

Unveiling the Authentic Self:

Authenticity is not about conforming to societal expectations or fitting into molds crafted by others. It's a celebration of your uniqueness, an acknowledgment of your genuine desires, and a commitment to living in alignment with your true self. The journey to authenticity begins with self-awareness – a deep dive into your values, passions, and the essence of what makes you, well, you. Staying true to yourself might, at times, confound those who live in a different realm, guided by different principles or expectations. It's a path that might not always align with conventional norms, and that's perfectly okay. Authenticity invites us to embrace the confusion, recognizing that our journey is our own, and it need not conform to the narratives of others.

The Unseen Strength of Authenticity:

In a society often marked by facades and pretenses, authenticity is a beacon of strength. It requires the courage to be vulnerable, to show up as you are, flaws and all. I often show up ‘regular and raggedy’ as I like to call it, because I love to prove that my appearance does not determine my abilities. It's a declaration that your worth is not contingent on the approval or understanding of others. The power of authenticity lies in its ability to inspire, connect, and resonate with those who value genuine human experiences.

Remember those blog posts and Instagram captions that echoed the importance of being authentic? They serve as reminders to nurture your unique path. If you haven’t seen them, check them out HERE. Authenticity is not a one-time decision but a daily commitment to honor your true self. It's about making choices that align with your values, even if they diverge from the expectations of those around you.

Embracing the Confusion:

Confusion may arise when your authenticity clashes with societal norms or when others struggle to comprehend your choices. Yet, within that confusion lies the beauty of authenticity. It's a testament to your refusal to conform blindly, a declaration that your path is carved by your principles, not external expectations. You’ve been one way all your life, sometimes those who benefit from your hiding your authentic self. Don’t mind them.

Keep Being You:

As you navigate the labyrinth of authenticity, remember to stay the course. Keep being you, unapologetically and authentically. Your journey is a unique narrative, a story that unfolds with every decision you make in alignment with your true self. Embrace the confusion, celebrate your authenticity, and let it be a guiding light on your path.

Being real is a priceless gift you give yourself. It costs nothing, yet its value is immeasurable. As you stay true to yourself, making decisions that make sense to you, remember that authenticity is a journey, not a destination. Keep being you, for in your authenticity lies the power to create a life that truly reflects who you are. Here’s to living a life filled with joy, on your terms, with or without those that you thought would be there for the ride.